Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a psychotherapeutic approach that has gained renown for its efficacy in treating trauma and other psychological disorders. In EMDR, what constitutes ‘the self’ is not explicitly articulated. It can be perceived as a conglomerate of memories, beliefs, emotions, and physical sensations that define an individual’s unique identity. For me, this notion transcends a static definition, evolving continuously as one encounters new experiences and information. The self is not merely a singular, unchanging essence but a complex tapestry woven from a lifetime of interactions and internal dialogues.
Components of ‘The Self’
Our memories, both conscious and subconscious, play a pivotal role in shaping our self-concept. Traumatic memories, in particular, can profoundly affect our sense of self, often leading to negative self-perceptions and maladaptive behaviours. Core beliefs about oneself, others, and the world are integral to our self-concept. These beliefs are often rooted in early experiences and can be either empowering or limiting. Emotions are inherently tied to our sense of self, influencing our mood, motivation, and overall well-being. Finally, our bodies and minds are interconnected, and physical sensations can reflect and influence our emotional and psychological state and vice versa.
The Role of ‘The Self’ in EMDR Therapy
EMDR therapy aims to facilitate the healing and integration of the self by addressing and reprocessing traumatic memories and their associated negative beliefs and emotions. This process involves several key components:
Targeting Traumatic Memories: EMDR targets specific traumatic memories that have become maladaptively stored in the brain, causing distress and dysfunction. By reprocessing these memories, individuals can alter their perceptions and beliefs about themselves, leading to a more positive self-concept.
Bilateral Stimulation (BLS): EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (left-right, up-down), such as eye movements, taps, or auditory tones, to facilitate the reprocessing of traumatic memories. This stimulation helps to desensitise the emotional impact of the memories and promotes adaptive information processing, allowing for the integration of positive beliefs and emotions.
Cognitive Interweaves: These are therapeutic interventions used to address cognitive blocks and promote adaptive processing. These interweaves can help individuals reframe negative beliefs about themselves and develop a more balanced and positive self-concept.

Developing Positive Cognitions: EMDR encourages the development of positive cognitions and beliefs about oneself. Through reprocessing, individuals can replace negative self-beliefs with more adaptive and empowering ones, fostering a healthier and more resilient self-concept.
Case Example: Reintegration of ‘The Self’
Consider a client, Jane, who has experienced childhood trauma. Her sense of self has been fractured by negative beliefs such as “I am unworthy” and “I am powerless.” In EMDR therapy, Jane targets specific traumatic memories that reinforce these beliefs. Through bilateral stimulation and cognitive interweaves, she begins to reprocess these memories and develop new, positive beliefs about herself. As Jane progresses through EMDR therapy, she starts to integrate her traumatic experiences into a cohesive narrative. She no longer views herself as unworthy or powerless but rather as resilient and capable. This reintegration of her sense of self allows Jane to move forward with a stronger, more positive self-concept.
Challenges in Reintegrating ‘The Self’
The journey towards reintegrating the self in EMDR therapy is not without its challenges. Clients may experience intense emotions, resistance to change, or difficulty accessing specific memories. However, with the guidance of an EMDR therapist, these challenges can be navigated, leading to profound healing and transformation.
To summarise, the concept of ‘the self’ in EMDR therapy is both intricate and transformative. By addressing and reprocessing traumatic memories, EMDR facilitates the reintegration of the self, allowing individuals to develop a more positive and adaptive self-concept. This process of healing and self-discovery is central to EMDR’s efficacy and its ability to foster lasting change.






