How I Work
My Therapeutic Approach
“We have learned that trauma is not just an event that took place sometime in the past; it is also the imprint left by that experience on mind, brain, and body”. Bessel A van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score
Integrating Buddhism, Humanistic and Existential Therapy with EMDR, IFS, and SE
A Holistic Approach to Healing and Growth
In the ever-evolving field of psychotherapy, finding harmony between various therapeutic modalities can create profound opportunities for healing. My practice embodies this philosophy, seamlessly weaving together the spiritual insights of Buddhism, the empathetic foundation of humanistic therapy, and the depth-oriented perspectives of existential therapy with the transformative tools of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing), IFS (Internal Family Systems), SE (Somatic Experiencing), and cutting-edge neuroscience.
A Grounding in Buddhist Principles
Buddhism offers a timeless lens through which we can view suffering, impermanence, and the pursuit of inner peace. Central to this integration is mindfulness—the practice of cultivating presence and awareness in each moment. Combined with psychotherapy, Buddhist principles encourage clients to approach their struggles with curiosity and acceptance, fostering resilience through compassion and self-reflection.
In the therapeutic process, the concepts of interconnectedness and non-attachment are also pivotal. These elements enable clients to develop perspectives that transcend rigid narratives about their identities, relationships, and traumas, paving the path for profound transformation.
Humanistic and Existential Foundations
Humanistic therapy places the client at the centre of the experience, honouring their inherent worth and potential for self-actualisation. Existential therapy, meanwhile, addresses the deepest questions of existence: meaning, freedom, isolation, and mortality. By integrating these approaches, I guide clients to embrace their autonomy while exploring the existential truths that shape their lives, helping them navigate challenges with authenticity and courage.
The combination of humanistic empathy and existential depth creates a rich, nuanced space where clients can reconnect with their values and aspirations, ultimately enabling them to lead more aligned and purposeful lives.
The Modern Therapeutic Modalities
EMDR: Healing Trauma Through Bilateral Stimulation
EMDR is a powerful tool for processing trauma. By engaging the brain’s natural healing mechanisms through bilateral stimulation, this technique enables clients to reframe and resolve distressing memories. In my practice, EMDR is enhanced by mindfulness and compassionate inquiry, allowing clients to approach their trauma with both clarity and gentleness.
IFS: Connecting With Inner Parts
Internal Family Systems therapy provides a framework to understand and heal the multifaceted parts within us. By fostering dialogue between these internal voices—whether they are protectors, exiles, or managers—I help clients achieve harmony within their internal systems. Buddhist ideas of non-judgment and interconnectedness complement IFS, encouraging clients to view their inner parts with compassion and wisdom.
SE: Reclaiming the Wisdom of the Body
Somatic Experiencing taps into the body’s innate ability to heal from trauma. By focusing on physical sensations and releasing stored tension, SE helps clients restore balance to their nervous systems. This approach aligns beautifully with Buddhist mindfulness and existential attention to physical embodiment, enabling clients to deepen their awareness of the synergy between mind and body.
Integrating Cutting-Edge Neuroscience
Incorporating cutting-edge neuroscience into therapeutic practice unlocks a deeper understanding of the brain’s role in emotional regulation, trauma processing, and resilience-building. Advances in neuroscience provide invaluable insights into neuroplasticity—the brain’s remarkable ability to adapt and rewire itself in response to experiences. By leveraging this knowledge, I help clients create new neural pathways that support healing and foster positive behavioural changes.
Techniques such as mindfulness-based and brain-based somatic interventions are integrated into sessions, enhancing the effectiveness of EMDR, IFS, and SE. This integration allows clients to engage with their healing journey at both a biological and psychological level, empowering them to harness the innate capacity of their brains to promote growth and recovery.
By bridging the gap between neuroscience and traditional therapeutic models, I aim to create a more comprehensive and informed approach to healing, one that honours the complexity of the human mind while embracing its potential for transformation.
The Synergistic Blend
The integration of these modalities creates a dynamic, personalised approach to healing. Each session is tailored to meet the unique needs and challenges of the individual. Clients are empowered to explore their lives through multiple dimensions—spiritual, emotional, cognitive, and physical—while safely engaging with the complexities of their experiences.
This blend is rooted in the belief that healing is not merely the absence of suffering but the flourishing of one’s deeper self. By combining the transformative methods of EMDR, IFS, and SE with the wisdom of Buddhist, humanistic, and existential philosophies, and the insights of neuroscience, I provide a holistic pathway for growth that honours the entirety of the human experience.
A Commitment to Empowerment
Ultimately, this integrative approach is about empowerment. It is about helping clients reclaim their agency and reconnect with their inner strength, enabling them to navigate life’s challenges with authenticity and grace. Through this synergistic journey, they move toward a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them—toward healing, purpose, and peace.
My aim is to integrate a coherent combination of cognitive, emotional and somatic, trauma-focused approaches within a supportive therapeutic relationship to help facilitate new meaning, new possibilities and new choices to enable you to live a more fulfilling, meaningful and liberated life.
"Trust the wait. Embrace the uncertainty. Enjoy the beauty of becoming. When nothing is certain, everything is possible." - Mandy Hale
What is Trauma Therapy?
Trauma therapy helps people overcome psychological trauma. A traumatic event is defined as one in which you perceive a threat to your life, bodily integrity, or sanity. The other component of the definition is your reaction to the event or situation. Trauma occurs when your ability to handle the event is comprised. Trauma symptoms do not reflect weakness or a moral deficit, but rather brain changes that can be altered with therapy. Trauma-focused therapy changes the question from ‘What is wrong with you?’ to ‘What happened to you?’
Trauma therapy is not one specific type of treatment, a variety of therapies can be used alone or in conjunction with one another to help you deal with the trauma and move on with your life. I use ‘bottom-up’, ‘top-down’ and ‘horizontal’ approaches to facilitate change. Trauma work requires body-brain integration.
Bottom-up approaches work through the body to change the brain, especially the lower, sub-cortical areas outside of conscious awareness. Examples include mindful breathing exercises, body scan, progressive muscle relaxation and some meditations.
Top-down strategies target the higher cortical or ‘thinking’ areas using cognitive reappraisal, some meditations and talking therapy.
Horizontal approaches emphasise stimulating both right and left parts of the brain (inter-hemispheric processing). I use EMDR to facilitate this.
Trauma-focused therapy realises that many survivors struggle with existential concerns such as demoralisation, loss of meaning, alienation and insufficient self-acceptance and happiness. This means that therapy is not about techniques per se it is very much about the therapeutic relationship, talking and ‘being with’ another. The process of therapy is a collaborative journey into the unknown.